Question by The Clocks are striking Nineteen: Did you have such experience before? Share your views?
I met a guy in a party five months ago.He is great looking and very decent human being.We started casual and we used to discuss many issues. He seems intelligent person when he talks for 30 minutes and we always kept 30 minutes intelligent talk and the rest we used to flirt. While we were having dinner a friend of his called, after the call he told it was friend &she is in the hospital because she had breast implants and she is in pain.So I asked him why did she do that? and he answered everyone wants to look their best. And he asked me how long the pain lasts,funny enough Im size D but i never had any surgery so I told him Im not aware how long the pain lasts. I asked him if he really likes the idea of women having breast implants in order to look great and he said definitely he likes it. At that point I felt I was sitting in front of a very shallow man and with in seconds all my thoughts of him changed. He didn’t notice any change in my face as i can be bit expressionless but at the same time i didn’t push the topic because wasn’t interested. Did that ever happen to you? Like you think someone really different and in seconds things change to different.Thanks
ps im 19 and he is 26
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Answer by ♥Bitchbitch
Yep. Its funny how one seemingly trivial thing can change stuff. Trust me, if someone’s view on a certain topic bothers you now, wait til you are in a relationship with them!
You need to find someone with similar values and beliefs. I had a hard time finding someone ‘like me’. But I eventually found a guy who has a shockingly similar thought process and belief system. It was worth the wait. Five years of marriage, and I still barely want to hang out with anyone else.
Got to go through the losers before you find a winner!
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