Question by Jeanette: How Do You Come Out To People You Know Will Reject You?
Long story short, I was recently forced to move into my grandparents’ house. After finally getting another job here and getting some real money, I planned on starting my transition from male to female. The only thing is, I know that in order to get surgery down the road, they need you to fully live as your target gender for 2 years I think.

My main problem is, I KNOW for a fact they will not accept this, at all. They barely accept anything not white and Christian. But I’ve been trying to deal with this for almost 11 years now and it’s time to make a change. I just don’t want to get kicked out, and before anyone says it, moving out isn’t really an option because the job market in Florida is atrocious. I planned on hiding it at least from them at first, but after a while, especially with hair and clothes and breast implants, they’re gonna find out.

So essentially, what’s the best way to go about this?

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Answer by Cicatrixx
I’m not too sure how to approach your family about that. You make them out to be quite intolerant :S Unfortunately, the outcome I see is you telling them or you walking home with new breasts or something like that and them just telling you to pack up and move out However, I could be wrong! They might not like it, at first or they may never accept it. But you’re family no matter what they think. You just have to hope they’ll be compassionate about the whole living situation. If they kick you out, where do you go from there? If you want to make this transformation you may either have to wait until you’re on your own or move out. I know you said it’s not an option, but sometimes close minded people won’t give you options I wish you all the best in your transformation! Be like the butterfly! <3

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Question by Sad Girl: Will my work know I looked at a Boob Picture? IT experts?
Before you answer, let me give you some more background.

I have worked for a bank for 2 years. Daily, I go to a website called dlisted.com, which is hollywood gossip etc. It contains lots of curse words and bad pictures, but always cencsored. I have never been talked to about this website, and for some reason is not blocked like myspace is.

To my knowledge, there is one IT guy who works there and he is pretty busy with other things normally. He seems pretty cool.

So today I was on a plastic surgery website, I am helping my friend find a good surgeon for her boob job LOL. I clicked on “breast implants” and it just opened up to a graphic page showing before and after pics of naked boobs. I IMMEDIATELY exited the browser window.

Ever since, I have started feeling worried my work will find out and let me go.

IT experts, does my work just know what pages I go to? Or can they see the exact images of the pages? What are my chances of getting in trouble?

Thanks, I am a worry wart

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Answer by Hi, Billy Mays here!
There’s nothing to worry about. Sleep tight.

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Question by Leeloo: Does anyone know why my breasts are suddenly swollen and painful? I have 9 year old implants?
2 Years ago I fell off a horse and pulled my pectoral muscle, I was also going to the gym a lot. One day I was jogging without an adequate bra and my boobs were a bit sore. Over the next few days, the left one swelled to an E cup from a C and was very painfull.. It felt like really bad tenderness like when your period is due or when you are pregnant. But only on the left.

I went to the doc and he thought my implant had ruptured so i was refered to a surgeon and she said it WASNT ruptured but just traumatised from the riding accident and jogging with no bra. Anyway, the swelling went down after 2 weeks and all was well.

Now, however I get painful swelling on both breasts, to the point where they swell sizes and are lumpy, and then go down again after about 2 weeks, I am really worried, but before I go to docs wondered if this had happened to anyone else? By breasts are lovely when they arnt swollen, I dont want another op it I can help it.

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Answer by KC
Are they silicone or saline?

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Question by calibling: I would like to know what websites might show filming of live actual breast enlargement surgery?
Im also looking to see actual face implant surgeries. I am a new scrub tech and am temporarily being hired at a plastic surgeons office for them to see if i am a good fit for the company . So in preparation of the job next week monday I want to study as much as i can so I can be better prepared. Any websites you can direct me too will be helpful. All I can find is before and after photos . I need actual technical step by step regarding the procedures and hopefully some actual films of these two procedures being done. Thanks

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Answer by John B
Hmmmm…try google video or wikipedia. i find wikipedia tends to have useful links to what I need to know.

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