Question by Jenny: My ex agreed our daughter could pierce her ears, then changed his mind after she got them done. ~His problem??
When my 7yo daughter started pleading she wanted earrings for Christmas (she’s been asking for 2 years on & off) I told her I’d think about it. Part of the “thinking” involved phoning my ex for his thoughts. He stated ‘for f**k sake she wants earrings, it’s not a f**king tattoo or breast implants’
So yesterday morning, my daughter and I set off for a girly day. We got our hair done, bought matching dresses, got our ears pierced and went for a Chinese.
She sent him a photo message of her wearing the dress & earrings from my phone, and he called me back. Plain studs would have been OK, diamonds (they’re actually cz) aren’t suitable for kids. They look slutty, he doesn’t want his child dressing-up before she even reaches puberty.
Was I right to tell him that as far as I am concerned, when he OK’d the piercing, he lost his right to object. If he had said no, she wouldn’t have studs in now, and no way am I going to make her take them out and heal them over because dad changed his mind?
Best answer:
Answer by viola
Dont take them out. I can understand why he is your ex, he sounds like a complete jerk to me.. I dont think there is anything wrong with ear piercing.. Why did he change his mind anyway?
Im sure your little princess looks beautiful with her dress, hair and new earings…
Just tell him to get into the century…
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