Question by Rosario: My wife doesn’t want children and I do?
I’m 29. I’ve been married to my wife for a few years. While we were dating, she said she wanted children. Now, that I’ve approached the subject in the past year or so, she’s decided she doesn’t want children and cites one of her main reasons as ruining her breast implants and liposuction with weight gain from pregnancy. She was hellbent on getting those damn implants after her sister did because of this idiotic sibling rivalry thing she has going with her. And the liposuction was ridiculous because she wasn’t overweight. Her body was perfect beforehand. Anyway, before we got married, we decided around this age, we’d have our first child. I don’t want to divorce my wife because I love her and in my culture, divorce is just something you don’t do. I have a close friend who’s an older woman and she’s not married and she wants to have children. She threw the idea for me out there on the table a few months ago but I didn’t think anything of it because I was sure my wife would get over plastic surgery and it was just a phase because of her sister but she’s not swaying at all. She’s actually considering getting bigger implants instead. I was considering my friend’s offer because she said she would keep it a secret about me being the father and she’s willing to let me see the child because she wants the baby to have a father. Would it be completely wrong and horrible to do that or am I just being selfish? Could it work? Please help. Thanks.
I don’t have a problem supporting the child. And my wife doesn’t seem to have an interest in children in general. We have physical custody of my neice right now and she’s honestly, not very attentive to her. Yes, I probably overdote on my niece but my wife doesn’t even keep an eye on her half the time. I’ve seen my friend around my niece before and other children and she’s completely different and children just seem to flock to her. I honestly wouldn’t feel comfortable leaving a child, much less an infant, alone in my wife’s care unless she had a very serious attitude change.
I didn’t “let” her get implants. I tried for a year to hold her off on getting them and she finally just said she’s getting them regardless of what I want or think of her.
I’ve even suggested adoption or a surrogate mother and she’s shot that down as well. I don’t think she’s very interested in having children at all. Had I known she didn’t want children, I might not have married her. Part of the reason I fell in love with her was because she wanted everything I wanted family-wise. Now, it’s completely different.
Infidelity is only infidelity if I have sex with my friend and technically, that’s not required. I don’t believe my friend would out me or blackmail me. She’s determined that she wants her child to have a father that will love it. That’s why she refuses to just go to a sperm bank and have a child on her.
My wife told me she was thinking about getting sterilazation. That’s what has really thrown me over the edge with thinking of something else.
Tabo, I don’t have to actually have sex with my friend to have a child. Also, she knows how much I wanted children when we got married. Had she not wanted children, adopted or otherwise, I would not have married her. I want to be a father and I wanted my wife to be the mother of my children. I deeply love her but I’ve held up everything I promised I would as a husband. I support her, I love her, I would do anything for her, but she completely changed after she got plastic surgery and went on this whole “perfect looks” thing when I thought she was beautiful before.
My wife does not want to go to a therapist or get professional help. She’s completely halted on the subject 110%. I’ve tried basically everything I could think of. A few weeks ago, she said she wanted to get her tubes tied. She doesn’t want to adopt. She doesn’t want to use a surrogate. So I don’t know what to do otherwise.

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Answer by Kaiser H
just stay with your wife and wait until she decides all the makeup stuff isn’t worth not having children.

it’s not a valid reason to divorce.

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Question by ??: can u help me?? I WANT BOOBS!?
so basically im thinkin about getting breast implants….im looking for before and after pics of people that are the same height and weight as me…..and right now i barely fit an A cup(iv had 2 kids)
im ‘5′3 and i weigh 115 or so

Thanks

p.s i tryed to google it but i cant find anything

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Answer by Melysser
how old are you??

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Question by Lilly: i want breast implants, any tips?
I’m 20 years old and my right breast has always been smaller than my left. when I’m wearing a bra you can hardly tell but when I’m with my boyfriend and we have an intimate moment i feel so insecure naked. he knows they re not the same size and he doesn’t seem to mind but i do. i feel extremely uncomfortable in a bathing suit, in a tank top, a strapless dress… its a horrible feeling not to be comfortable in your own skin so i have been researching breast augmentation. does any one have breast implants? if so please share some stories, how did u feel before you got them? how do you feel now after getting them, which kind did u get saline or silicone? how long did it take to recover? and was it worth it. please anything you can share will be so helpful. thanks in advance!

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Answer by Sophia J
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Question by kim g: i want to get breast implants.. cost?!?
Okay so im 19 turning 20, i still need to save up my money so i prob wont get it until 22 or 23, but i was wondering whats the approximate price for both breat combined.. ty!
ty all guys!!
im an A cup and i just want to be a C cup which is normal size, im not going to be getting so much attention ij ust want to fill out shirts.

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Answer by HappyMonkey
i would say like 2000-5000 dollars or maybe even more.

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